Avant Parenting Archives
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Avant! Welcome to my parenting blog archives
As you can see by the dates below, this blog is no longer being updated. However, there’s lots of good stuff here, much of it as true now as when it was written. Please feel free to browse, or follow these links: One last piece of parenting advice: Enjoy today even if it’s a rough…
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Love Bomb
As soon as our second child started getting around (scooting on her tushie just like her mommy did), we realized we needed some help. Our son had never gone through the terrible twos, and like all first-time parents, we congratulated ourselves on what a good job we’d done. When he was five, a year after…
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Comfort in Numbers
Someone forwarded me with glee yesterday’s news that Bristol Palin, former vice-president-wanna-be Sarah Palin’s daughter, has broken off her engagement with her baby’s father. I generally think that politician’s personal lives should be no one’s business — unless something in their personal life intersects in a meaningful way with their public life. For instance, many…
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What’s Good for the Goose
Our ten-year-old has been having trouble focusing on “the task at hand.” Like most ten-year-olds, he’s got so much swimming around in there that sometimes he gets lost in the midst of doing something we need him to do. “Can you bring down your laundry?” I call. “OK!” he replies cheerfully. Ten minutes later. “Are…
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Double Trouble
The other day we neglected our son in the name of family unity. My husband and I had been trying to make plans to get to San Francisco alone for a while, and since it hadn’t worked out, we knew we had to take the kids. Or at least one of them. The combination of…
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Homeschooling Role Model
Before we ever knew we’d be homeschoolers, we got to know our first homeschooling role model. Our daughter, newly turned four, was not having an easy time at preschool. In hindsight, I know that we kept her there way too long. But my image of my life had so far not changed: I’d get both…