Avant Parenting Archives

  • Avant! Welcome to my parenting blog archives

    Avant! Welcome to my parenting blog archives

    As you can see by the dates below, this blog is no longer being updated. However, there’s lots of good stuff here, much of it as true now as when it was written. Please feel free to browse, or follow these links: One last piece of parenting advice: Enjoy today even if it’s a rough…

  • The Trouble with Tattling

    When my son was in first grade, his teacher brought up a serious problem at our first parent-teacher meeting. “We need to work on his tattling,” she said. “It’s a really serious problem.” I was confused. I’d always been happy that my firstborn was well-behaved at school. Although he was often very difficult at home,…

  • Have a Happy/Merry Whatever!

    My husband and I had been together for years before we married, so he knew what he was getting into. The Christmas thing, that is. I was raised Catholic by scientist parents, and though the Catholicism seems to have dropped by the wayside, Christmas is still a sacred family holiday. My dad loves a celebration…

  • Snow Day

    I grew up in the Midwest, so “snow days” loom large in my memory. It started with a curious feeling upon waking, that things were different. On mornings after a deep snow, everything was quiet and bright. Even before I opened my eyes I would sense it — a possible snow day! My siblings and…

  • A Homeschooling Sort of Day

    Another homeschooling mom gave me great me advice about what to do when homeschooling isn’t going well. She spent weeks just taking her child on long walks. It’s amazing how much education can happen on a walk! The thing about homeschooling that’s particularly difficult for me, and I’m guessing for a lot of parents out…

  • Love Her and Let Her Go

    I received some pearls of wisdom the other day about discipline from a tattooed great-grandmother who works at my daughter’s homeschool program. My wise woman told me that she never had preschoolers in her care give her trouble about walking in a line on sidewalks. When I expressed my doubt that she’d be able to…