{"id":869,"date":"2024-11-07T20:48:15","date_gmt":"2024-11-07T20:48:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/?p=869"},"modified":"2024-11-07T20:48:18","modified_gmt":"2024-11-07T20:48:18","slug":"are-your-books-bumming-you-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/are-your-books-bumming-you-out\/","title":{"rendered":"Are your books bumming you out?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recently I read a Young Adult novel that one of my students recommended. There were many good aspects of the story, but one thing bothered me: The end of the story led me to feel like the future was hopeless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the far past, kids&rsquo; books could sometimes be <em>too<\/em> happy, so happy that they seem ridiculous to us now. But for many years, although kids&rsquo; books took on challenging problems, they were almost required by publishers to have a hopeful ending. No matter how much difficulty the characters went through, at the end there had to be a sense of hope for them and for our world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want you to know that I think that the idea of writing a book for children that ends with no hope is not only unnecessarily depressing, but I think it&rsquo;s <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;unethical&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Not morally OK, wrong&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/unethical\/\" data-gt-translate-attributes=\"[{&quot;attribute&quot;:&quot;data-cmtooltip&quot;, &quot;format&quot;:&quot;html&quot;}]\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">unethical<\/a>. The fact is that human history is full of struggles. But the other fact that always goes along with those struggles is that humans thrive when we have a sense of hope for the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;unethical&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Not morally OK, wrong&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/unethical\/\" data-gt-translate-attributes=\"[{&quot;attribute&quot;:&quot;data-cmtooltip&quot;, &quot;format&quot;:&quot;html&quot;}]\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">unethical<\/a> to write hopeless books for kids because those books are teaching you something that is untrue: you are not living in a hopeless time, and no problem is so great that you can&rsquo;t find a shred of hope within it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Reading books that tell you that the future is hopeless is not good for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So here&rsquo;s my advice: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&rsquo;t read them! You can read reviews to find out what others think of the book. And I give you permission to look at the end of a book before you read it. And if it&rsquo;s a big, fat bummer, set it aside.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But won&rsquo;t reading the ending spoil the story? It turns out that research says NO! Read or listen to my episode called &ldquo;<a href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/there-are-no-spoilers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">There are no spoilers<\/a>&rdquo; to find out why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the book has been assigned by a teacher, speak with them about your concerns&mdash;chances are, the teacher has found a good reason to assign it. But if you&rsquo;re doing pleasure reading, don&rsquo;t seek out books that make you feel worse about our world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Life is challenging enough without being told that there&rsquo;s no hope. There is hope, and I have hope that you will always be able to find hope within every challenge you face&hellip;. and the great books that you read!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently I read a Young Adult novel that one of my students recommended. There were many good aspects of the story, but one thing bothered me: The end of the story led me to feel like the future was hopeless. 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