{"id":92,"date":"2015-09-17T19:47:31","date_gmt":"2015-09-17T19:47:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/?p=92"},"modified":"2015-09-17T20:03:03","modified_gmt":"2015-09-17T20:03:03","slug":"what-happens-when-you-get-stressed-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/what-happens-when-you-get-stressed-out\/","title":{"rendered":"What happens when you get stressed out?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One thing that happens a lot in education is that kids get stressed out.<\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 275px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/real-faker.deviantart.com\/art\/Commission-Classic-Lit-Kids-214509455\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/img01.deviantart.net\/dbe3\/i\/2011\/173\/b\/2\/commission__classic_lit_kids_by_real_faker-d3jpojz.png\" alt=\"Kids\" width=\"275\" height=\"250\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Classic Lit Kids by real-faker<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Some kids get stressed by the school <strong>environment<\/strong>. Maybe you&rsquo;re at a school that has a lot of competition and you don&rsquo;t like competition.<\/p>\n<p>Some kids get stressed by certain types of <strong>activities<\/strong>. Common activities that can be stressful are public speaking and test taking.<\/p>\n<p>Some kids get stressed out by <strong>social<\/strong> interactions. Maybe you haven&rsquo;t found any friends at your school. Maybe you&rsquo;re homeschooled and you haven&rsquo;t found anyone yet who has similar interests to yours.<\/p>\n<p>Some kids find one particular <strong>teacher<\/strong> or <strong>subject<\/strong> stressful, maybe because they&rsquo;re worried they aren&rsquo;t good at the subject they&rsquo;re studying.<\/p>\n<p>Here&rsquo;s the #1 thing you should know about <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Being stressed out keeps your brain from doing its best.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/b\/bc\/Constudoverbrain.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/b\/bc\/Constudoverbrain.png\" alt=\"Brain diagram\" width=\"263\" height=\"359\"\/><\/a>If you get stressed out by public speaking or tests, I bet you know exactly what I&rsquo;m talking about. Maybe you know everything there is to know about U.S. history, but you get to a test and you freeze up. Not only have your hands gone clammy and you feel sick to your stomach, but your brain just stops working! You can&rsquo;t remember anything!<\/p>\n<p>The reason for this is how our brains evolved. We have something called the &ldquo;fight or flight response.&rdquo; When we start to get stressed out, our brain switches gears and suddenly we&rsquo;re in panic mode.<\/p>\n<p>Think about it this way: When people were hunter-gatherers with only crude tools, there were lots of scary beasts around. So we developed this switch in our brain. If we spied a scary beast, our bodies would be flooded with adrenaline, which helps us find sudden bursts of energy.<\/p>\n<p>Our brains wouldn&rsquo;t say, &ldquo;Hm, let&rsquo;s take some time to think this over.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Our brains would say, &ldquo;Run!&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Fight or flight is a great thing to have when you&rsquo;ve spotted a lion.<\/p>\n<p>Not so great when you&rsquo;re sitting in front of a history test.<\/p>\n<p><strong>OK, so what do we do about <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a>?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you have <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a> so bad that it happens all the time and you aren&rsquo;t enjoying your life, you need to talk to an adult who can help you, right now.<\/p>\n<p>Most of us just have <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a> sometimes, or in one particular area of our lives. In that case, there are things you can do to keep <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a> from taking over:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I like<strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/kidshealth.org\/kid\/stress_center\/index.html#cat145\" target=\"_blank\">KidsHealth&rsquo;s Relax &amp; Unwind Center<\/a><\/strong>&mdash;check out their five steps for working on <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Remember that <strong>life can change<\/strong>. In fact, life always keeps changing, and this is good. Look for ways to change your life in the direction you want.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Notice the signs<\/strong> for when you&rsquo;re getting stressed out and make a plan for how to deal with it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure style=\"width: 253px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.deviantart.com\/art\/Yoga-435348063\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/pre05.deviantart.net\/81d4\/th\/pre\/i\/2014\/050\/c\/0\/yoga_by_natsmall-d7770pr.jpg\" alt=\"Yoga\" width=\"253\" height=\"248\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">By NatSmall<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Remember, also, that a little bit of <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a> can be helpful. Psychologists call this &ldquo;<strong>good <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a><\/strong>.&rdquo; Like maybe you are actually pretty good at public speaking, but before you get on stage your heart pounds and you feel sweaty. That&rsquo;s just your body getting ready to face the lions in your audience!<\/p>\n<p>In any case, the key is this: <strong>don&rsquo;t&nbsp;let <a class=\"glossaryLink\"  aria-describedby=\"tt\"  data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\"  href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\"  data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]'  tabindex='0' role='link'>stress<\/a> take over your life and your learning<\/strong>. When it does, that&rsquo;s the time to take stock and figure out how you can work things out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For kids: Sometimes we get stressed out. What is <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;stress&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It&amp;#039;s so important in this day and age to monitor our stress level and get support if we need it. If you are feeling really stressed out, please confide in an adult and get the support you need.&amp;lt;\/p&amp;gt;\n&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/glossary\/stress\/\" data-gt-translate-attributes=\"[{&quot;attribute&quot;:&quot;data-cmtooltip&quot;, &quot;format&quot;:&quot;html&quot;}]\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">stress<\/a> and why does it make it harder to learn?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,4,3],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-92","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-learning","category-memory","category-the-brain"],"aioseo_notices":[],"episode_featured_image":false,"episode_player_image":"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/KidsLearn-UseYourTools.jpg","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/ksqd-talks-music\/id1703111686","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"rss":{"key":"rss","url":"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/feed\/podcast","label":"RSS","class":"rss","icon":"rss.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/7DuOuT1jXWSctSexcdC97s","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"tunein":{"key":"tunein","url":"https:\/\/tunein.com\/radio\/KidsLearn-p3854634\/","label":"TuneIn","class":"tunein","icon":"tunein.png"},"youtube":{"key":"youtube","url":"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=mECGrb_UsoA&list=PLhcbiKBzJvJLnU2R4q1eSNuE_jBTCm6Iu","label":"YouTube","class":"youtube","icon":"youtube.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/feed\/podcast\/kidslearn","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"ZSHpxxuWla\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/what-happens-when-you-get-stressed-out\/\">What happens when you get stressed out?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/sukiwessling.com\/kidblog\/what-happens-when-you-get-stressed-out\/embed\/#?secret=ZSHpxxuWla\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"&#8220;What happens when you get stressed out?&#8221; &#8212; KidsLearn\" data-secret=\"ZSHpxxuWla\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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